Every individual goes through a struggling period in his life before attaining success, and I have seen an extended period in a few cases.
During this struggling phase, sometimes life seems too unfair as it does not offer equal chances, opportunities to people. They have to struggle with different sizes of barriers ahead of them. Some are too lucky to have no hurdles at all as they are born with a silver spoon.
For those who have to struggle from scratch, sometimes consider it divine nepotism!
Are You too Going Through an Extended Struggling Period?
Don’t worry, you’re not alone. The good part is that the world is not defined by the elitist minority who are inherently blessed with opportunities and resources. If you lived in a state we call poverty or deprivation, you should be happy that you have more room to flourish than your richer counterpart.
The most optimistic aspect of the struggling period is that it coincides with all sorts of learning. Besides, struggle makes an individual stronger than a person who faced little or no failure in life.
It is even better to experience some initial failures and undergoing a trying phase than leading an effortless life. Because when you achieve something after the labor of months or years, you feel a sense of achievement. This feeling inculcates a kind of gratitude in your disposition.
Trust me, that feeling is here to stay and is likely to set the course for the rest of your life. It will also guarantee your success!
What Happens When You’re Struggling For Success
When an individual is struggling, it is often the roughest patch of his life. This is the period that nobody actually desires, but most of us are condemned to go through.
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It does not necessarily have to be about money. You can have money, and you are seeking to attain some sort of success, whether it is your college degree, the publication of your first book, or anything that you have been trying to do but has been repelled by the external forces.
Where it reflects human limitation, it also gives ample room to prove your mettle through your determination and will power.
So, How Can You Be Successful
Trust me, there is no sure recipe for success. Nor is there any guarantee for success. Perhaps, success is not an achievement in itself as most people think about it.
Conversely, success is a phase, a pinnacle of your life that you deserve to attain by exploiting the force of each muscle of your body, including the brain.
It is the right time to find your true potential, and more importantly, where it lies. Obviously, you cannot flourish in each matter that you have come across.
So, after finding out your potential areas where your strength lies, you must not look back. Perseverance is the key.
Most importantly, if you take care of this last thing, you will never fail: don’t be afraid of trying new things. Most of us who fail are often those who are limited by their own fears of doing new things!