Four Signs That he is Only Interested in Sex

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Although physical attraction can be great, it does not provide a solid foundation for relationships to stand on. To avoid finding out that your relationship is strictly physical after months of dating, check out these key signs that will let you know whether or not he is only interested in sex.

1. Only texts

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Via Flickr/Melina Sampaio Manfrinatt

Yes we live in a digital age, but this does not mean that face to face conversations are completely obsolete. According to, “keeping his communiqués to emails and texts also allows him to steer the conversation towards sex.” By now physically talking in person, he can get confident in his advances towards sex because by texting, he cannot see your reaction or feel embarrassed if you brush him off.

2. Does not introduce you to his friends

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Via Photo Spin

If you do not share a small part of his social life, then there is a problem. As notes, “he should begin integrating you into his life within the first few months of dating.” If you do not meet his loved ones in this time frame consider the possibility that you never will. Furthermore, if he cannot share you with his friends it probably means that he does not want you to be an active member in his life.

3. Never wants to go out

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Via Photo Spin

Another phrase for this is: booty call. If he comes up with a million excuses as to why he does not want to go on a public date, or that it is better if he “comes over later,” then he is only interested in hitting and quitting. suggests that “if he’s truly into you, he’ll make plans in advance.” Always date a guy who will make time for you, puts effort into the relationship and never makes it seem like taking you out is an inconvenience.

4. Avoids getting to know you

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Via Photo Spin

Talking is a key factor in determining the longevity of a relationship, and effective communication is the key to a successful relationship. So, “that a guy who plans dates that don’t give you a chance to talk to each other isn’t likely interested in a relationship,” as states. Dates that do not allow you two to talk include going to the movies and concerts. Even though these are fun activities to do, if this is all you do then there is a red flag. Going to places that are either loud or require silence can take away the need for conversation, which is very important to determining how compatible you two are. Therefore, if he does not want to talk to you, but still wants to go to your place after your date, he is only interested in sex.


About Stacy Narine

Originally from Paterson, NJ, I recently graduated from Seton Hall University with my B.A in English. I will be starting my M.A program in Literature at Seton Hall University in spring 2015. I love Pinterest, Photoshop, and writing fictional short stories about characters who are trying to establish a sense of individuality while in relationships. Ready to momentarily stray from fiction, I am motivated to write about topics that are important to women.

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