The Sex She Wants

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When it comes to sex, men and women want certain things. Some of these wants are the same, but there are a few desires that differ. Here is a list of what women expect during sex, some of these suggestions may surprise you.

Create suspense

Contrary to popular belief, not all women like to climax during foreplay. Why? Well it’s simple really, once a woman has an orgasm, it may not happen again. Women need time to relax a bit after an orgasm so that the blood can stop rushing to their brains and flow normally. So if they come too early—like men, it will not be mutually enjoyable for both parties. So, when it comes to foreplay, allow it to lead up to sex (that is what foreplay is for), but not be the main attraction.

More kisses

Just like men, kissing is crucial for women during sex. Kissing is sweet, but its main importance during sex is to establish a connection. During moments of ecstasy, or times where both of you are feeling good, give each other a kiss and we promise that both of you will feel even better. These tender instances will also make women feel special, secure, and safe. These are ways in which they want to feel outside of the bedroom as well.

A little roughness

Remember when Ally and Noah have sex in the movie, The Notebook? Just like that. Women do not want to be handled like an expensive antique vase, they want to be touched. Playing around roughly in bed can help you both act out fantasies or scenes from the movie. This does not mean you have to break out the whips and chains, start off slowly by holding her arms down with a small amount of force—like in the movies.


Women love to see their men take control during sex because it shows their masculinity. If you are more confident in the way you move in the bedroom, then your lady will get excited. Do not make it seem like you do not know what to do with your hands, or when to kiss her. Let her know that you want her and you know how to please her.


About Stacy Narine

Originally from Paterson, NJ, I recently graduated from Seton Hall University with my B.A in English. I will be starting my M.A program in Literature at Seton Hall University in spring 2015. I love Pinterest, Photoshop, and writing fictional short stories about characters who are trying to establish a sense of individuality while in relationships. Ready to momentarily stray from fiction, I am motivated to write about topics that are important to women.

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