What do men really want in bed? Does he want you to act like a porn star or stripper? You may think he wants you to act out all of his porno fantasies and expects you to become a contortionist—but this is not the case. Here are seven moves your man really wants from you during sex.
1. Ask him what he likes
Although men can be a bit shy when asked them what they like, make them feel comfortable and safe—let them know that anything they say in the bedroom will stay in the bedroom. The best way to ease into this unexplored territory is to use foreplay. When he is touching you, ask him how he wants you to touch him. This small request will send shocks to his sexual systems.
2. Be assertive
Men want to have control in trifling matters like work, food, and money. Sex is probably one of the only times he is willing to let you take the reins, and wants you to initiate sex. According to womenshealthmag.com, “when you take charge, you affirm your desire for him, something he needs both in and out of the bedroom.” Ultimately, just make him feel wanted and be more passionate.
3. More foreplay
Contrary to popular belief, he does not want get down and dirty right away. Men are aware that women need time to get aroused. Furthermore, men like to watch women get sexually excited—their responses will also help men grow and stay hard.
4. Positive feedback
This may seem a bit funny but it is completely true—men want you to give them a pat on the back to make sure they know that they are doing a good job. According to womenshealthmag.com, men “want nothing more desperately than your appreciation and respect for their hard work.” So after a passionate and pleasurable romp in the bedroom, tell him how much you enjoyed it and he is sure to perform even better next time.
5. Be confident
This is the number one thing that men want from women during sex. Do not nitpick your body and tell him what flaws you find in your body or say that you are not sexually sound. Womenshealthmag.com suggests that you should “Grip the sheets. Grab the headboard. Moan into his ear and talk dirty. Plead. Demand. Direct.” Let him know that you want him as much as he wants you, and you know exactly what your body craves.
